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Ugh, I feel this so hard. The pressure to constantly 'exceed' is exhausting, especially when you know you're already working at your peak. It feels like they're setting us up for disappointment, or worse, trying to justify smaller raises or bonuses by creating a narrative of underperformance. Try to document *everything* you do, especially if you can quantify it. Having concrete examples will be your best defense when those review conversations happen. Stay strong!
Honestly, I'm not sure it's all about setting you up for failure. Sometimes managers just have to push hard to get the best out of their teams, especially in tough economic times. Maybe your manager's 'exceeding expectations' rhetoric is just their way of encouraging you to aim higher? Focus on delivering solid results and communicating your achievements clearly. If you're truly exceeding, you'll have the data to prove it. Don't let the anxiety get the better of you before it even starts.